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April 28, 2017
You are NOT a failure. Do you hear me? You're not.
You're HUMAN. That means you have your good days, and you have your bad days.
It means that there are some things you have a natural talent for, and other things you have to work harder at.
It means you f*ck up sometimes.
But, you know what else you do daily, that no one does quite like you?
You push through. You do it everyday (otherwise you'd be DEAD).
You've somehow managed to find a way to keep going, even when you've felt like things couldn't get any worse.
Not being where you want to be has not killed you.
That means you still have some fight left.
That means you can do something about whatever the problem is.
And, so what if your friend has gotten the exact thing you want but don't have yet?
It doesn't make them better than you. It was just their time.
And your time will come, too.
Besides, there is no rule that says you have to be grinding yourself to the bone every minute of every day.
You don't have to have everything together right this minute.
And we need the breaks just as much as we need the hard work.
Don't let society convince you otherwise.
I know we all love to talk a good game on social media about being on our grind 24/7, but it's okay to stumble sometimes.
It's ok to breathe.
And, I'll leave you with this: don't be so hard on yourself.
If you need to change something, just change it - don't beat yourself up, because it's a waste of your time.
Besides, you're probably doing a bit better than you think.
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